My bf is in Japan for 4 months. I really didn’t agree with him leaving but he wanted to go to help his career. I decided to take this time and work on myself. We spoke on the phone this morning and he was venting about not wanting to be there. As he was venting he said “then all this money i make here, I’m gonna turn around and waste it on you when I come home”. I told him he doesn’t need to buy me anything and asked what he was talking about. He told me an engagement ring. I told him not to buy me one if that’s how he feels. He told me I take everything too literal and later (after realizing his comment made me upset) told me he wanted to marry me from day one.
I just need some perspective on how to digest this. My heart feels shattered if he thinks buying me a ring is a waste. If he doesn’t mean it, why would he say it? Any advice on how to handle this?
Things to keep in mind -I don’t ever pressure him in getting married -I’m very money independent so I don’t ask him to buy me anything
TLDR: While my bf was venting to me about being in Japan; he told me “he’s going to make all this money and turn around and waste it on me”. (Talking about an engagement ring)
Submitted January 24, 2021 at 03:32PM by OMW2PYPuppers https://ift.tt/3iKekdX
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