For context I'm 19, he's 20 and we've been together just over 2 years.
I was looking through pintrest and came across a photo of a girl I swore I recognised. Showed it to my boyfriend and asked if he knew who she was. He went pale and started to have a panic attack. I comforted him and calmed him down and he said he didn't know who she was or why he'd started panicking. I smelled BS and asked if he was sure and he said he was so I dropped it.
While scrolling through the same pintrest board I cam accross a photo that I definitely recognised. It was his ex's profile picture on Facebook. When I when on her profile (I think I checked it out once before to she what she looked like but didn't pay much attention) she only had 7 friends, all of which were my boyfriends friends. She also only had 2 photos, both where the ones I'd seen on pintrest. It's clear to me that he made her up or at the very least, faked her profile.
'She' was around way before I even knew him and all his friends confirmed that so this has clearly been a long term thing that he assumed would just go unnoticed forever.
I don't care that he made up a girlfriend or lied to his friends. I don't care that he lied to me to keep up the charade. I'm just worried that this is causing him so much anxiety.
Do I confront him about this or just let it die? If I do confront him, how do I do it?
TL;DR accidentally found out my boyfriend made up his ex, unsure what to do next
Submitted January 02, 2021 at 02:43PM by XxXmogXxX https://ift.tt/2LcNhLR
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