I F(24) was fwb with a guy M(24). I thought he was a player type so I never tried to progress the relationship. We were together two years. I found out that he was in a relationship for a year and a half.
That he would text me when with his gf and that they were together 24/7. I’m guessing he would call me when she wouldn’t put out. It makes me feel so low. That she got all the benefits where I was some low tier person on the side. Someone to just use and abuse while he invests in another.
I guess I would rather be her position since I don’t mind he was sleeping with others, but I feel he valued me less. That he put in all this effort and stuff with her because she was better.
He committed to her after one month. Was with me for two years and nothing. He told me it was a bad relationship and that’s why he cheated. Yet he had the option to leave for me so that’s doesn’t add up.
Why keep me in the dark? How do I get over this? Why her and not me? How do you progress a FWB if you get feelings?
TL;DR: found out I was unknowingly the other woman. I was just sex on the side for two years. He put in effort and normal relationship stuff with her. This hurt my ego so bad. Why her and not me and how do I get over this?
Submitted January 19, 2021 at 05:33PM by wiinkzzx https://ift.tt/39OY7jv
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