Boyfriend got his third DUI, what should I do?
My boyfriend(25,M) recently received his third DUI within three years. First one was reduced to reckless in 2018 driving and other is still pending(2019) . I am soo furious. I don’t know what to do. He is good to me otherwise. He loves on me, treats me with respect, makes me feel like a queen, and loves my family. This is so difficult to process for him to be so stupid. Now, his lawyer is telling him he has a lot of rehabilitation to go through and classes to do. All these lawyer fees, rehab programs and classes will be over $10,000.
He is now admitting he has an alcohol problem and is seeking help. He has been really remorseful about everything.
I make two times more than him so he is not gonna pan out well financially. His parents told him to come back home to get his life together and be a better man for me. Leaving me alone with our apartment. He gave me three options
One: he goes back with his parents to get his self right and we break our lease. I find my own place by myself.
Two: he goes back to his parents for only a few months and I stay in the place not breaking the current the lease. Pay the bills by myself and he come back after he get himself right
Three: he stay with me and I still pay most of the bills while he pay his lawyer fees, rehab fees(that’s 4,000 alone) and other stuff he gonna get hit with
I know a girlfriend is supposed to be there for their partner when they’re down but to what extent? I used to be homeless, come from a broken home and worked so hard to get to where I am. He comes from a well off two parent household and just keep doing dumb stuff which is so frustrating. I feel so discouraged and my trust is broken.
TLDR- boyfriend of three years got his third dui. He is going to be in such a tough financial bind and won’t be able to really help me with rent. Trying to figure out how to move forward. His is 25 and I am 24 by the way.
Submitted January 24, 2021 at 02:27PM by AdEcstatic4911 https://ift.tt/3iKg6M1
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