I Am a 35 F going back to college.. a 19 F in my class asked to grab coffee several times on campus and it was fun the 2 times I went. The problem is she has been texting and calling EVERYDAY. She alternates 2 personalities: desperately contacting me for help with an assignments last minute OR giving over the top compliments and buying me stuff. Seems kinda like manipulative behaviors.
She is coming on way too strong, talking about coming over to my house, meeting my family.. even asked if she could call me mom once. She randomly texts me that’s she misses me, we have only hung out twice! Why is she acting like we have been BFFs for a lifetime?
I feel guilty because I have been ignoring her messages, if I reply to a message, she immediately calls me! She she asks dumb questions about HW, almost like she is faking needing help just to get me on the phone.
Why is this woman so clingy and dependent.? I would have been friends if she wasn’t so creepily coming in strong. I still have over a year of my program classes to deal with her.. so I don’t want to be rude and say leave me alone.. but idk if there is a middle ground with this type of personality
TL;DR practical stranger trying to be my BFF
Submitted December 03, 2020 at 10:22PM by fluffypoodlefarts https://ift.tt/3g6hQOC
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