My (28F) estranged husband (28M) has moved back into our marital home without discussing it with me and I’m not sure what to do.

My husband and I separated last year. We agreed I would stay in our marital home as he travels a lot for work and is rarely home anyway. He has an apartment he stays in whenever he is here though.

For the most part, our separation has been amicable despite him refusing initially. He’s respected my boundaries until now. Last night he showed up out of the blue. When I asked him what he was doing here he said he lived here and went into his office where he stayed until I went to bed. This morning, he wasn’t here but his housekeeper was. She stopped working in our marital home when we separated because I found out she was giving him updates about what I was doing. I asked her why she was here, and she said my husband had told her she was to work here again.

When he got back home, he had his assistant with him so I couldn’t ask him what game he was playing and when his assistant left and I tried to talk to him he said he had a meeting and couldn’t talk. He only left his office a few minutes ago and went straight to bed.

I’m really confused right now. He didn’t mention he was going to move back even though we spoke a week ago. He keeps avoiding me when I try to ask so I’m not sure what to do now. Any advice or suggestions on how to handle this situation would be appreciated.

TL;DR – My estranged husband has moved back into our marital home without warning and is avoiding me whenever I try to ask him why he’s back.

Submitted December 04, 2020 at 04:36PM by ThrowRAestrangedhome https://ift.tt/37yu0Me