How Do I Break Up With My Boyfriend Around The Holidays?

Hi all!

I (F27) want to break up with my bf (M29) we have been together for 4 years, but I cannot take it anymore.

I’m kinda scared to break up with him because last time I tried, it did not end very well and he guilted and manipulated me to stay with him. But I am completely done now and need help on how to do it around the holidays.

He has a bit of an aggressive side (has thrown shoes, made holes in the wall, thrown random object, hit things) and it makes me scared.

Thank you so much! Please only kind advice. I know I should have gotten out of this relationship long ago.

Tl;dr: how do I break up with my bf of 4 years around the holidays?

Submitted December 04, 2020 at 07:56AM by puppydog12345 https://ift.tt/3lMFXTs