I (28m) recently had a fight with my bf (30m) of 4 years. Imo it was just a silly argument. I ordered pizza and started eating while he was on the phone, he got mad I started eating without him, I apologized, he was still mad at me, I got emotional, said he was being crazy and went to bed.
Since that night he’s mostly talked to me in one word sentences. At first I didn’t say anything because he’s explained it’s how he cools off after a fight. After a few days I finally asked him if we could just talk about it. He completely stonewalled me. Wouldn’t respond to me or even look up from his phone, then left the room after I kept trying.
I don’t know what to do now. I’m very bad at standing up for myself — I usually get tongue-tied or lose my temper, and being ignored like that makes me so anxious. I want to move past this but also make him realize the way he’s acting is immature and disrespectful.
TL;DR - we had a small fight days ago and he’s giving me the silent treatment and walks away when I try to talk to him. What should I do?
Any advice would be appreciated.
Submitted May 24, 2020 at 04:38PM by atlas279 https://ift.tt/3d1dPbD
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