A few days ago my wife and I were talking about sexual topics and she asked me how often I masturbated thinking about her. I told her, "every two or three days" and she was fine/happy about my answer. Then she asked what else I thought about while masturbating and I told her, "meeting a stranger for hotel sex," and she was like, "okay". But her face kind of fell and she has seemed sort of distant since then. Then, this morning, I was semi-complaining about some things I am going to have to get done today that I never got around to on the weekend, but she snapped at me and asked if I wouldn't rather be planning to go out and "pick up some skank at a hotel bar?"!
Like what? No, I don't want to pick up skanks at hotels, even when I was single I only liked fantasizing about it. I'm a shy dork, I met my wife at a bookstore, I just like fantasizing about having a gritty hotel fuck.
How do I help her understand that my masturbation fantasy isn't this secret desire to pick up one night stands? She seems really upset by this, and it's quite out of character for her. I wasn't reticent to tell her my fantasy when she asked, because she doesn't get random hurt feelings from hypothetical things like this. Like, there is a girl on a show that she knows I think is pretty, and she will tease me about my 'crush' whenever we watch the show; she's not insecure about my affections.
TL;DR: I told my wife a masturbation fantasy and it hurt her feelings. I don't know what to say to make her feel better.
Submitted October 01, 2018 at 03:50PM by taway33445 https://ift.tt/2zJQXMS
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