My girlfriend and I have been together for 9 months now. Our relationship has always been smooth sailing until she learned that a close friend from high school whose name is now pretty big (we'll call her G) messages me at the most random times. Last month, we started talking more. She was going through my Instagram messages, which I found unreasonable but that's another story to tell.
She threw a massive fit and was accusing me of hiding it from her because apparently, I want to cheat on her with G and I was just waiting for the right time to meet her because of the distance G and I have.
I honestly wasn't hiding it from her, I actually kind of forgot about G because we don't usually talk and when we do, the conversation is always short. And I'm pretty sure that I've mentioned our friendship during family dinners. I also haven't been on TV and the internet enough to mention to my girlfriend that G has a spot in my life. Work has kept me too busy.
If I wanted to be with G instead of her, then there wouldn't be an "us" in the first place. However, this is too hard to understand from my girl's point of view.
Ever since she found out last month, she has been moody. She has said some pretty hurtful things like I live in a fantasy world where G and I are together, living a lavish lifestyle off her money and that I'm only friends with G because of her money. I don't need a lavish lifestyle, I have a decent paying job and my girlfriend does too.
I have also known G since high school. We were a big part of each other's lives before I moved away and the relationship has always been mainly platonic. To also add to this, G has been having a hard time coping with everything lately and I wanna be there for her and assure her that everything is going to be fine, just like the old times.
It's unbelievable how my girlfriend thinks I want to suck money out of G. It sucks because I assumed she would know that I am not that kind of person. She has also resorted to calling G degrading names and even threatened to make a hate page about her as if that was going to change a thing.
I love my girlfriend very much and I honestly want to be with her in the future but this is just unacceptable behaviour. I don't want to cut G out of my life, she was there for me when I was extremely struggling in high school. It hurts to see hateful comments about G, but it's harder to hear when it comes from a person you love and trust.
My girlfriend's behaviour shows that she doesn't trust me, despite not doing anything and that she can get controlling. She wanted me to block G on everything and even asked me to ask my parents to not mention her during family times starting last month.
I'm posting this today because we just had a massive argument about her when she saw G's face on a Facebook article. She laughed sarcastically and showed me G and called her my s***.
I want the names and this attitude to stop, any advice?
TDLR; my girlfriend gets extremely jealous when it comes to a celebrity friend. She started showing disgusting and controlling behaviour since she found out about our friendship and believes that I wanna cheat on her with my friend and that I am just waiting for the right time to meet her.
Submitted October 02, 2018 at 06:23AM by shilozxxx https://ift.tt/2OpnIqP
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