We're both 22, and we have a toddler together. Small history I guess? Literally got pregnant not even a month into our relationship, before we really got to know each other. It's over two years in and I'm realizing we probably wouldn't have lasted if it weren't for the pregnancy.
We've been through a lot of rough patches, a lot of my boundaries being broken because he has a wondering eye -- he hasn't cheated as far as I know, but he likes to.. look, for a lack of better terms --, substance abuse on his side, and just generally us just not seeing eye to eye over literally anything.
I know this sounds vent-y and I'm probably rambling right now but, I feel like I'm being overdramatic. I've communicated and I don't know if I'm putting it all in a good way (I'm on the spectrum and generally not awesome with my words sometimes) because he tells me I'm being mean to him or stressing over nothing. I just feel we're incapable on almost every wavelength. There's so much more but I don't want to ramble for too long or sound like I have a victim complex.
I want to ignore this stuff because of our kid but its complicated. I don't even have a job to be able to leave anyway, he's been the sole one working until he's finally given me the Ok to work from home but I'm not having a lot of luck so far.
What's the best move for me to make here? Just wait and save up or try to talk it out again?
I have no family to stay with and he doesn't want therapy because he doesn't think we have any problems.
TL;DR - my partner and i are complete opposites to the point its causing negative affects on our household && life and i need help figuring out what to do.
Submitted January 05, 2022 at 02:21AM by momThrowaway647 https://ift.tt/3eXrmUc
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