I'm dealing with the following situation:
I hate my fiance's career. I met him during the first semester of my freshman I was 18 and he was 19) so we've been together for a long time and we moved in together in 2018. I majored in nutrition and I work at a private clinic. He majored in finance and works in the finance industry, so money wise we're doing okay. Well, since COVID-19 started we've been working from home and I "discovered" some stuff about him that I don't like at all. I realized that he's a ruthless banker...I find some of his actions morally questionable, I will never forget how much he and his colleagues/friends celebrated this "once in a lifetime opportunity" to make money and how the stock market and whatever they invest in was "on sale", it's as if they enjoyed hearing the news that thousands of small businesses going bankrupt and families defaulting on their mortgages and losing their everything. I love helping as many people as possible, it makes me feel good, but I realized that he acts with complete disregard of the human aspect, I've seen him keeping a straight face while telling people that the bank is basically taking everything away from them, which breaks my heart. He's the sweetest, friendliest and nicest guy in the world, but i don't why, It's like his personality completely changes from 9 to 5 and becomes a cold-hearted, money hungry ruthless banker. After he's done with his job he acts as his usuaL self, I don't know how to feel about this. His recent actions are making me question my decision to be his future wife. Am I crazy? What should I do?
TL;DR I hate my fiance's career and his actions are making me question my decision to marry him.
Submitted March 31, 2021 at 07:05PM by asfddsdf https://ift.tt/3fve2rO
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