I (21F) accidentally hurt my boyfriend's (19M) feelings and now he doesn't want to have sex with me.

So the other day during sex with my boyfriend I kinda got in my own head and wasn't feeling it. I said to him "are you done yet?" in a really bad tone during sex. I immediately felt like shit right after I said it. My boyfriend looked at me with a super confused look, stopped what he was doing, got dressed, and left.

I don't know why I did that tbh it just kinda came out. I was in the mood at first but then I started remembering random stuff that turned me off and I ended up not feeling sexy at all. The thing is at that point it was already too late to stop so I was like might as well get it over with but I def was not feeling it.

Anyway, I felt so bad about what happened. So I went and apologized to him and he was like "It's fine it happens. Don't worry about it. Its my fault for not doing more anyway. I wish you would have told me though". I tried explaining to him what happened and that it wasn't anything he's doing or not doing and that it was me getting in my own head, but I'm pretty sure he thinks that I'm just trying to make him feel better .

It's been a week and we still haven't had sex since then....

I've talked to him about it and asked him if what happened last time is still bothering him but he says "Nah why would it". It was obvious to me that it is bothering him. I keep trying to get him to have sex with me, but he keeps saying that he's tired from work or that he's not feeling it today (Pretty sure this was the first time he's ever said that he's not in the mood) I don't know if he's mad at me or just turned off because of what happened but something's def up and Idk what I should do about it. I already apologized but still no sex. I don't know how I should handle this. Should I just wait it out or maybe try talking to him about it again in a different way? What should I do?

tldr: I said to my boyfriend "are you done yet?" during sex because i wasn't feeling it. He got upset and we haven't had sex since then. Could use advice.

Submitted April 09, 2021 at 10:43PM by ThrowRAmili202020 https://ift.tt/3s5jcNX