I (23f) have feelings for my best friend (23m). We've been friends for a while, and had always had a flirty relationship, but he never made a move so I ended up dating someone else. I broke up with that guy when I realized my feelings for my friend weren't going away (nothing happened, but the guy I was with didn't deserve to be with someone who wasn't all in) and now I feel stuck. I don't want to ruin our friendship (which became less flirty when I was dating that guy, but we're now slowly getting close again), nor do I want to make the dynamic of our friend group awkward. But I do think we have a little "something," and that we could be an incredible couple. Also, I'd be remiss if I didn't mention that I am super attracted to him, which is actually quite rare for me to feel strongly.
So my question is this: has anyone been in this situation before? I think he might be open to seeing if something's there if he knew how I felt, but there's also a chance that he might not be, and I don't want to make things weird by making a move on him if he doesn't reciprocate.
tl;dr: I'm SUPER into my best male friend and I don't know if I should make a move or not. Would appreciate all anecdotes and advice.
Submitted February 08, 2021 at 11:28AM by dumbiftrue https://ift.tt/3q3GJ1w
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