My straight (m) partner has been getting weirdly sexual messages from their supposedly straight (m) friend.

I’m a straight (f) and have a straight (m) boyfriend, we have been together for 2 years. My boyfriend has a friend that he claims is also straight however he messages my boyfriend very questionable things. In the past I have noticed he’s said things to my boyfriend like “mmm can’t wait to rub those” when talking about my boyfriends feet. He’s pointed out my boyfriends curves and said how sexy they are. When I confronted my boyfriend he said it’s just banter that all guys have and that I’m being controlling. So I pushed it aside and tried not to think about it and my boyfriend stopped messaging him in front of me. Until a few days ago I saw a message that was talking about wanting to eat food off of my boyfriends body and then another one a few days ago saying that only he could do the tasting and that he would use “rapid techniques”. As much as I want to believe this is harmless banter to me this just seems like a major red flag. I can’t really talk to my boyfriend about it because I saw the messages on his phone while he was on the toilet. Please help because it’s making me feel so sick thinking about it and I really don’t know what to do. I know my boyfriend loves me and is not gay but this just doesn’t seem right to me

TL;DR my straight boyfriend is getting weird sexual messages from his supposedly straight friend

Submitted February 16, 2021 at 12:45PM by Difficult_Return_928 https://ift.tt/3bgAEZc