For several years now I've been asked to stop talking or heard 'I don't care' if I try to talk about something I'm genuinely interested in. Or even sometimes when you just want to vent after a rough day at work. It is infuriating and also makes me feel unimportant and insignificant.
If I had a chart of my self-esteem at the beginning of the relationship and where it is now it would be a steady decline down in the abyss.
I've brought this up with my girlfriend several times and everytime she apologizes, takes the critic to heart for a couple of weeks or a month and then we are back to the same square once again.
I honestly do not see an improvement coming anytime soon. When it happened again tonight, when I wanted to share my thoughts on a book that we've both read and she told me she didn't care, I had an epiphany. I should just leave this relationship. Am I crazy to think that?
tl;dr - my girlfriend doesn't like when I share my thoughts and opinions, so I think I'm going to end the relationship
Submitted February 16, 2021 at 02:15PM by ganandorf27 https://ift.tt/3s1oSZD
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