For the record we have been dating for six years and still both live at our childhood homes with our parents, both of us are still in college but graduating soon.
A snowstorm is hitting our area soon and my girlfriend wants me to spend the night snowed in with her because we will not be able to see each other otherwise. Also she will be very busy the next few weeks and wants to spend time together before we cannot. Even though we do not live together we are not a couple that does not spend a lot of time together. We are together almost every day and it is rare that I say I want to do something else (hangout with friends or play video games or something), she never wants to do anything besides see each other.
I basically said I have no interest in being snowed in at her house, I said it fairly nicely but I did not tiptoe around because I knew it would be an issue no matter how I said it. She has a very small house and her mom, her and me would be on top of each other however long I was there. I have a much larger house where I can avoid people to my leisure. At her house I would also be relegated to sleeping on the couch because her mom would not want us sleeping together (this doesn't bother me my parents are the same way) but I just enjoy sleeping in my own bed and being in my room. Additionally my house has all of my food and my mother cooks dinner for me every night. If I went over to her house I would have to plan out a meal to cook and cook it. I also have my internship and school remotely which I feel much more comfortable doing at my desk in my room than at her house on my laptop (laptop isn't in great shape but she would be quick to point out it does work).
Now I am often accused of being immature which I honestly can understand because I am very close with and live with my parents. I was never thrilled about sleepovers as a child and I still do not love sleeping at my girlfriend's house (even when her mom is away) because I just do not sleep well and I am so much more comfortable in my own space. Yes I am 23 and maybe my mother's home cooking should not be a deal breaker but it comes down to the fact that I just do not feel like spending the snowstorm there.
TLDR: Girlfriend wants me to sleep over during snow storm, I do not want to because I feel more comfortable at my own home.
Do you guys/gals think I am totally in the wrong and should just go there?
Submitted February 17, 2021 at 01:45PM by tryingtoplay777 https://ift.tt/3u9pZbC
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