It’s a problem i’ve been having for quite some time and it’s gotten to a point where it’s ruining relationships and friendships. I find myself talking to people and whenever something comes up where i don’t agree with someone i seem to convey that i’m debating or arguing with them, i don’t realize this even when it’s pointed out because i genuinely have no idea what i’m doing to convey anything other than a normal conversation about whatever the topic is.
It’s happened with family members, friends, and romantic partner, and it makes conversations that should be completely peaceful or even productive turn into fights because apparently i sound like i’m fighting from the very beginning. I honestly don’t know what to do to fix it and i hate putting people through stressful fights without meaning to and i hate that it’s affecting my relationships with people. Has anyone had this same problem? Has anyone managed to get better at it?
(TL:DR i always sound like I’m arguing or fighting while i don’t see when this is happening, and i need help fixing it)
Submitted February 16, 2021 at 03:56PM by ThrowAR1928 https://ift.tt/3bhRJSV
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