So two weeks ago I (24M) started “talking” to my TA (26F),whom Ive never met in person but only talked to over Zoom and text. I initially emailed her because Im a second year in our grad program and shes a first year but shes TA-ing this undergrad course I wanted to take and I wanted to offer my help if she needs it with her grad classes. The conversation at first was casual but soon she wanted pics of me and so I sent her a quick selfie (didnt think much of it). Within a day she was texting me NONSTOP and it has become suffocating. She then kept bringing up all these hypotheticals like “We should be each others valentine” among others. Granted, I too was interested at very first. But quickly I changed internally because I dont want a relationship at the moment and I especially dont want one with a TA.
She keeps asking for me “be cute and send cute messages” to her. And I just dont have feelings for her, Ive never even met this girl in real life! Yet she has feelings for me simply by texting me nonstop over text and a few quick selfies.
I politely told her last night that I really enjoy talking to her and although shes cute, I cant really say I like her since Ive never met her. She got very angry with this.
What can I do now? I dont want a bad grade for my class, but I also dont want to have to go into a romantic relationship with this girl (again, whom Ive never even met).
tl;dr I started talking to my TA who then developed romantic attachment to me despite never meeting me in person. I decided Im not interested and shes very angry and hurt by my not wanting a relationship. What can I do?
Submitted February 04, 2021 at 08:04AM by NotAGoodUsernamelol https://ift.tt/2NZlIqw
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