I may sound petty for this, but i sure am feeling negetive feelings so here goes.
My boyfriend (20) has school today. I(20) have an upcoming deadline from my freelance job. Last night, his cat fractured a leg bone and needed immediate medical attention the next day (today), however he had important school exams work and told me he is at loss of making what a priority. So he came to me and ask if i can help send his cat instead, and gave me a decision because he knows that i am busy too. So, i decided to push my work back a bit and help because i felt that the animal's health is of equal priority.
Anyway the vet went and postponed the appointment to 4hours later due to crop ups. So i did a bit of work while waiting at my bfs house with the cat. but my laptop died after an hr as i didnt expect this to happen. I went to the vet and waited for 2hrs for the surgery. (bfs cat is a true strong boy though) All these happened as i updated him about the situations. He went offline for a whole 4 hours which included the surg waiting time, me sending cat back to his home, settling the cat for meds, washing up, then me going back my home. The whole day from taking care of cat took 9 hours, and i honestly am stressed about my work but didn't mind because it couldn't be helped.
However, once im home and settled down, i went on instagram(god forsaken app fr) and saw his friends post how they have ended hours ago and they are just hanging out. Of course i know I promised to help him with his appointment and he has all the rights to do what he normally does. However i just feel so annoyed that i "wasted" a few hours when he is already free from school. And i sacrificed my client deadline for something that he could have done. I know however that i am just being somewhat unreasonable to this. I just cant help but feel so angry and stressed about how he didnt even tell me that he ended and couldve help at least carry his pet's stuff with me, and also how i could've saved some time to finish my work.
Anyway im just throwing all my thoughts here on reddit before i lose it (seriously lack of sleep too from work) on his message, because he really dont need my negetive energy rn especially in the midst of his exams. Id appreciate any opinions on what is appropriate to react because i do want to let him know how i feel without being toxic.
TDLR: Boyfriend asks for help with a vet appointment, i agreed despite being busy, bf had unexpected freetime yet not telling me nor coming to help. I feel taken for granted but not sure if it is right for me to do so.
Submitted January 20, 2021 at 02:43AM by thisthrowaway91 https://ift.tt/2LIwfG5
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