Basically the title.
I’ve been reflecting a lot on my life over the past year, and I’ve come to realize all those that I considered “good friends” have actually been extremely unbalanced friendships that I constantly give and support but there is nothing reciprocated.
One I considered my “best friend” actually doesn’t stand up for me, and even puts me down every chance she gets not only behind my back but also right in front of me. However, any moment of upset in her life, she calls me crying for support and advice.
I always felt like I am the person people run to when they need a shoulder to cry on, and I’ve always been supportive and loving and caring. I’ve stood up for them when I felt called to, and I’ve always cheered them on in all of their pursuits.
Am I picking shitty people to be friends with? Is it unfair to ask for a healthy and balanced friendship? How do you go about making new friends that have meaningful connections with people who ACTUALLY care about you?
Tldr: I feel unfulfilled in my friendships but unsure if my expectations are too high.
Submitted January 19, 2021 at 05:48PM by coffeeandkarosene https://ift.tt/3p3vBB4
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