Hey everyone... Well I don't know how to start this but hear me out:
I've been dating my bf for five months, everything good so far, but things changed last Christmas. I wasn't able to find a plane ticket to the US, so stayed with my bf. I go to school in France (I'm French-American and college is way cheaper here than it is in the US), the thing is that I'm dating this guy but I feel like I'm not good enough for him. He wanted to introduce me to his high school friends, but i felt extremely out of place. He had never mentioned it, but turns out that he graduated from a private boarding school in Switzerland. He told me to wear something nice but I don't have any nice clothes, I only wear H&M and Bershka when I wanna feel fancy....He introduced me to his friends and oohh boy, I felt horrible. Those girls were wearing fancy dresses that I will never be able to afford, $3000 bags, drove nice cars, perfect nails, smart af. His guy friends and my bf are all studying finance-econ so they were talking about the stock market and that kind of stuff (I know nothing about investments/money). They had a civilized conversation about politcs, economy and places to travel. When they asked me what i was majoring in, i said political science (I'm actually majoring in fine arts but I felt ashamed of saying it because everyone there was majoring in business, pre law or science and they were making fun of art majors). His friend's house looked like a palace, they switched from German to English to French to Italian as if it was nothing....At the end of the night I felt dumb, useless, reconsidered my career choice and uncultured. I got mad at my bf for not warning me about this, but he acted as if it wasn't a big deal. The situation was humiliating. How do you deal with this? I'm seriously considering to break up up with him, I love him but we are from different worlds
TL;DR My boyfriend introduced me to his rich friends and i felt humiliated
Submitted January 23, 2021 at 08:00PM by adfgbdgefagsf https://ift.tt/39drnBD
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