Just had a conversation with my boyfriend(29) about possibly having children in the future. Although I respect his views I disagreed on something awful he said. So it turns out, he’s okay with having gay friends and has lived with lesbian roommates before but if he has a child that turns out to be gay he will not have it. His own words, “I would kick them out if they don’t learn how to be normal”. Well wtf. I grew up in a very troubled environment. If I want to start a family of my own, I definitely want my children to feel loved and respected. I would never want them to feel abandoned or neglected. A person should never feel ashamed of who they are. So now I’m troubled. I know my bf wants kids but after what he said I told him he should never become a father if that’s how he feels. You should always respect your children and love them no matter what. Now I don’t know what to do. I’ve been with him for 8 years..this may have been a waste of time. I can’t be with someone who would do something so awful. Thank god we’re not married.
TL;dr boyfriend wants a “normal” child in the future. Doesn’t want them if they are gay. We’ve been together for 8 years. I’m 27 he’s 29.
Submitted June 04, 2020 at 11:54AM by Extravagent_Berry https://ift.tt/3ctdP3i
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