Me (26f) and my bf (27m) have been together almost 2 years. My bf has been working for this company for 8 years, and his boss (32f) has always been there. The line of work is a male-dominated industry.
He doesn’t talk much about her, but I know they text on a weekly/bi-weekly basis. She is friends with many of bfs other male friends.
There is a reputation though that a lot of the other workers wives do not like her. There’s rumor she’s in an open marriage, and is always hanging out with lots of these guys. My bf has said “not my business” about any rumors.
She invited me and my bf over for dinner a few months ago, and it was a good time. It was a double date with her husband. I had my guard up because of what I’ve been told about her, but I tried to push any negative feelings aside. She was very complimentary of me, of how beautiful I am, how lucky he is to have me, etc.
We went for dinner again last night, and I got a weirder feeling. There was me, my bf, this woman, and her husband. Her kids were in bed sleeping. She was directing more of her comments towards my bf, and she seemed almost nervous around me.
We had quite a few drinks and she really wanted us all to go into the hot tub without bathing suits. I said I’m done for the night, and went to bed in their spare room. My bf came in to say goodnight and I told him how I have a weird feeling and I don’t feel comfortable with her. He said “don’t worry about it, everything is fine”. He left and I heard them singing and playing a guitar. I fell asleep.
I woke up about 1hr later to my bf coming in and saying we need to leave. He said her husband left the room and while my bf was playing the guitar, the woman touched the inside of his leg and the husband walked back in saying “what the fuck - get out”. I was fucking pissed. When I got out of the room, I heard the couple arguing in their bedroom. We gathers our things and left and drove home. Once my bf got in the car, he pulled out his phone an blocked all her contact info (without me asking). We had a fight about how I knew something was up, but he didn’t see any red flags initially.
I hate that my gut feeling what right. I worry that they have some weird flirty relationship now. I didn’t think before, because she has the same relationship with lots of younger guys they both work with. I just had a feeling I couldn’t trust her intentions.
By bf doesn’t want me to tell anyone, because her husband also works high up at this company and it’s embarrassing. I kinda wanna tell a couple close friends who also talk to her so they know she can’t be trusted.
Thoughts?
TDLR: my bf’s boss made a move on my bf and I don’t know what to do
Submitted May 06, 2023 at 05:29AM by mayhalleday https://ift.tt/cwt2Ezs
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