Tomorrow is my birthday. My best friend of four years asked me a few weeks ago what we were doing and when I said I wanted to celebrate, I just didn't know how, she asked me if I wanted her to plan something. Sure! I love not making decisions!
So she sends me a few options the next day and I pick one. In the intervening time I've had a rough go of it, some interpersonal crises and then just this week, my boyfriend's lung collapsed and he was rushed to the hospital. While there I told her "Hey raincheck on the phone call we were supposed to have bf is in the hospital but we're still on for Saturday!"
She says Oh no! I love you! I'll check in later!
I don't hear from her for a few days, I go to buy tickets to the event and oh no sold out! Well, there were other options. I text her, no response. The next morning "oh yeah it was sold out for me too T_T" so I say "boo! what should we do?" no answer. Finally, it's the day we're supposed to celebrate, today, since she's busy my actually birthday.
"So what are we doing today?"
"Um, sorry hon - wasn’t sure you were even gonna be available given the hospital emergency, so I’m not free tonight. Happy to go out to dinner next week to celebrate if you’re up for that?"
I asked her why she thought I was asking about what we were doing just the day before and also didn't I say we were still on?
"It was really not clear to me what was gonna happen, I’m sorry 😞 I’m about to head into my workshop, but I do want to see you this next week. I’m free every evening (except tomorrow) if you’d like to pick the night ❤️"
I don't want to hang out with her now. I was literally not going to visit my bf tonight just so I could celebrate with her and she just... cancelled? She was supposed to be my best friend. There was no other communication between us other than me saying yes we're on, hey the event is sold out, hey what are we doing. I'm at a complete loss as to why she thought I was not available.
What do I do? She's been kinda shitty before but this is the biggest fuck up that's happened and it really fucking hurts and I'm kinda pissed.
TL;DR: Friend decided that because boyfriend was in hospital my bday was cancelled despite me saying we were still gonna hang out. I'm hurt and angry. What do?
Submitted May 06, 2023 at 08:47PM by Itsyademonboi https://ift.tt/MXxWFDQ
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