Hello reddit
I will try and make this story as simple as possible; my (23F) boyfriend (24M) came to me a week back, told me he is struggling with some mental health problems and has been thinking about moving back to his home country. Around this same time I found out my timepoint for moving provinces was moved up, he had already known about this and it wasn't a dealbreaker for him but the moving country things is a dealbreaker for me and I was honestly emotionally devasted. We decided we would dropdown to a casual dating situation with less long term commitment until we are a little bit more certain of our future.
Last night we were being intimate and going over what protection we were using to which he made a comment "if you get pregnant I would take care of the kid" and "we would have mixed babies".
And I am not going to lie those comments seriously fucked with my head; for him to go from I might be leaving the country to I will take care of a kid if we had one?
Do I talk to him and set further boundaries or are these signs that I need to consider breaking all contact with him? Thanks very much
Tl;dr guy says he might move countries but brings up kids during intimacy
Submitted April 05, 2023 at 04:32PM by Brief_Awareness_8231 https://ift.tt/wDSQZOe
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