Last post was taken down so ill try to edit my language to get more input.
Been with gf for 2 years, objectively she's great and the relationship is great. Basically we often talk about our pasts and preferences, and she admitted that if she met her celebrity crush it would "take everything in her" not to fuck him or leave me for him. She also admitted that if she were single and had the chance of fucking me or one of her celebrity crushes she would pick them. Essentially she's only with me because I'm more attainable than them. Some names were the likes of Henry Cavill and Chris Hemsworth.
Maybe I'm weird but I dont see celebrities as some godlike unattainable people. Knowing she would rather fuck them than me is same to me as if I said I'd rather fuck the tall blonde from the gym, after all she won't fuck me either. She's only with me because she can't have them. It really doesn't matter why she can't, whether it's a celebrity or some guy who rejected her.
I know that every woman on the planet would also say what she said, there's no shame in that, so I know if we broke up I wouldn't find anyone different in that regard, and I'm genuinely fine with being single rather than being someone's 'realistic option'. It's been 2 years and every time I touch her or call her a pet name or anything all I can think of is none of it can compare to being fucked by someone hot and famous for a bit.
I obviously talked to her about it but there's really nothing she can say here, it's not like I can suddenly become hot and famous, and its not like I can expect any woman to be more attracted to me than to someone like that. She just says I'm unreasonable and doesn't think I should be upset over something that would probably never happen. But the thing is if it did happen, she'd be tempted to go for it, and the only reason she's with me is because those men never happened upon her.
My question is, is it normal to want to end the relationship over this? It been 2 years and it only bothers me more, and I've been bothered by things like this in past relationships.
Tldr- gf admitted she'd rather fuck her celebrity crushes than me if she had the chance. She argues I shouldn't be upset because it's unrealistic but I dont want to be with someone who's with me because I'm more attainable than their true desire. Should I break up with her or should I reconsider / am I missing something ?
Submitted August 20, 2021 at 12:33PM by ThothPatrol https://ift.tt/3k6p6MM
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