Hi everyone!
I got a lot of really amazing, lovely and helpful comments in my last post so I thought I would share an update. It isn’t much, but I think this will be the end of my saga.
Molly reached out to me a few days after my initial post. I don’t think it’s because she saw the post or anything like that, I think its just when she felt it was the right time. She basically said “sorry if you felt like I was ignoring you, I just needed space to sort out my feelings about you getting engaged before me and I didn’t feel like it was fair”. That’s not really what I wanted her to say but I accepted it because I wanted my friend back. My fiancée (LOL I can’t remember what fake name I used for him so I’m just going to call him my fiancée) was not happy with this response from her and warned my to keep my distance.
I ended up just being civil with her, I missed her so we chatted her and there but nothing more than that. Valentine’s Day came and I asked her if she and Tony had any plans. She said no, and asked me what we were doing. I was hesitant to tell her but realized it’s not up to me to downplay what my fiancée does for me to protect her feelings. I told her I got flowers, balloons, and my fiancée arranged for cupcakes from my favourite bakery to be delivered and he pre ordered a special edition of my favourite book for me. I got him a bottle of his favourite whisky and a voucher for a car wash and detailing.
She took a while to respond...and then I got a phone call. I pick up and it’s Molly. I was in the kitchen making drinks so I put her on speakerphone. Say says to me “Tony says he is going to hunt your fiancée down and beat him up for making him look bad today” she’s laughing about this. I don’t think it’s very funny. My fiancée yells from the living room “it’s not that hard to buy flowers!!!” She responds with “well Tony hasn’t left the house in a while so he couldn’t get me anything” my fiancée responded with “I bought them online ?”
She hung up on me. That’s it for me, I’m done with this relationship. I realize that this is toxic and I shouldn’t have waited around for her. After all this she is still making excuses for her deadbeat boyfriend and I don’t want that presence in mine or my fiancées life. I want to thank you all again for all your support, if it wasn’t for you all helping me see the light things might not have ended this way.
TLDR; she came back into my life with a lacklustre apology, we are no longer friends.
Submitted February 15, 2021 at 07:20PM by thrownawayfriend91 https://ift.tt/3tZneJQ
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