So my partner and I have been dating for 2 years tomorrow, and he disclosed to me tonight that I am the only girl that he has dated that hasn’t been a stripper..
I was quite shocked when he mentioned it, even though he had told me that he dated strippers before, he hadn’t mentioned that I was the only one that wasn’t a stripper....
I asked him if there was a reason, and he said “It’s just the way that things turned out”, and when I asked him if he was disappointed that I hadn’t been a stripper, he said “It hadn’t even crossed my mind.”
I’m not upset, but I keep wondering if maybe I’m not the type of girl that he’s looking for... I do consider myself sexual and try to seduce him on the regular, but I can also tell that he is used to girls that try to seduce him more than I do...
Do I have a right in feeling insecure? Am I overthinking it? He is a wonderful guy and is very understanding, but I worry that I am not sexual enough for him and that my lack of self confidence is actually a turn off for him?
Any advice is appreciated
TLDR; my boyfriend has only dated strippers, should I feel insecure that I haven’t been one myself?
Submitted February 02, 2021 at 03:20AM by DealerDense https://ift.tt/3jaj5xG
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