My (21M) gf (21F) texts her guy classmate a lot. It wouldn’t bother me if it wasn’t for her texting me less.

My (21M) gf (21f) texts her guy classmate a lot, it wouldn’t bother me if she wasn’t texting me less and less.

Me and my gf have been together for just over a year now. We don’t live together but she often stays at mine for quite a while (about 7 days or so). Since the start of her semester she’s been speaking to a guy in a class of hers for a good while now. I was skeptical at first she would reassure me that everything was fine and has willingly offered to show me her texts anytime. She doesn’t really speak to that many people so this guy is the only person she speaks to in her class. However over time we’ve also be texting each other less to the point where it’s basically one or two texts a day, especially more so in the last month.

Granted I’m not a big texter, and me and my girl major in different areas, it bothers me when I see the mass amount of texts they both send to each other and how often it happens, and all she can send me is a meme once a day. Phone calls are just the same.

I’ve been reluctant to speak up about it because I thought to some degree I was overreacting or perhaps I was jealous, but I’m starting to see the decline in texts as a problem. As said before whenever we see each other it’s always reassuring that everything is fine, but as soon as we’re away, we’re back from where we left off. I’ll be seeing her again soon and I plan to bring it up.

What are your thoughts?

Tl:dr gf speaks to new guy classmate a lot, at the cost of speaking to me a lot less.

Submitted February 02, 2021 at 08:33PM by ParkingHistorical125 https://ift.tt/3asJ4MN