Hi everyone,
Sorry if this is not the right subreddit but I’m a novice Reddit user. Im also on mobile so please forgive any formatting issues. I’m looking for advice on how to handle a situation that has been plaguing me recently.
A few years back I hooked up with an acquaintance with whom I had a lot in common. I had known her for 2 years at this point. I thought she was cool from the very start and was thrilled when she initiated a hook up. I was younger, insecure, and dealing with some trauma so the fact that she took interest in me in that way made me feel good.
Because we got along so well, I thought we could continue hooking up from time to time. A few weeks later we’re at a party. We’re both drinking but we’re both still aware. At one point, we’re going to a different location and we get cut off from our group. It’s just the two of us and I decide this may be a good chance to tell her how I feel. I tell her I wanted to talk and I can’t quite remember the words I said but I stupidly go in for a kiss. She immediately recedes and runs away crying. Realizing that my plan wasn’t the best idea and that it’s downright fucked up, I apologize immediately and let her run off so as to not make her think I was trying to hurt her. I know that I hurt her anyway by trying to kiss her and that kind of fucked me up because I generally try to be someone who doesn’t hurt people.
We never talked about that night but we would still see each other at different parties. At one point after the incident, we were at a party and she was flirting, even trying to hold my hand at some point.
It’s been about 8 years since the incident and I haven’t seen her in a few years but we still follow each other on social media and like each other’s posts. I was thinking about apologizing to her for that night and any other shit that I may have caused the next time I see her in person, even though I’m not sure when that will be. Is this a good idea? Should I do it online? Is it even worth bringing up at this point ?I feel incredibly awful about the incident as I feel like I hurt her. Any advice would be appreciated and I apologize if this is all over the place. Thank you
TLDR; I attempted to kiss a girl and would like advice about how to proceed
Submitted February 02, 2021 at 12:00PM by ThrowMeOut1234566 https://ift.tt/3cDxykj
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