Almost a year ago, my FWB and I started hooking up after we both got out of relationships. We had both been really close friends for a few years before this entire dynamic started, kind of the cliche best-friends-to-fuck-buddies kind of situation. It started off just for hook ups, but during the past six months we've been having more sleepovers, met his friends and family, and hanging out. He'll cook me meals and pay for everything, even if I offer to pay my end. It's complicated because we're both really good friends before all of this sex stuff.
I normally thought I was good at separating emotions from physical stuff, but it has just fully hit me how much I've grown to really like him; like, want to date him, like him. HOWEVER... I found out he was still talking/hooking up on-and-off with his ex up until a month or two ago. I don't care too much for a person's dirty laundry, but I feel disrespected since we both agreed to let each other know if we were sleeping with others (just for health reasons). So now I want to do one of two things:
- Completely just end it, no discussion. Try to stop seeing him and just go back full-time to the dating scene.
- Tell him how I feel (that I've started to really like him but can't continue being FWB if I'm being played and not respected like that) and then stop seeing him.
TL:DR Hooking up with best friend/FWB for a year now, want to end it because I caught feelings and found out he was hooking up with his ex a month or two ago.
Any advice?
Submitted February 03, 2021 at 02:47PM by Similar_Air_2535 https://ift.tt/3cH7Mfo
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