So my GF and i have been together for over 8 years. I love her into infinity and as far as my latest information go, she still loves me as well. I'm a very extrovert person whilst she is more of an introvert, so for her, the lockdown has been a lot easier then for me. She enjoys herself playing games, watching series or painting. I miss the interaction with my friends, who for the most part live 300km away so i don't see them often. We are stuck in a small 40m2 appartment in a German city in which I don't know anybody. She is often voicecalling with her friends, and even though I'm not jealous of her having contact with other boys, I'm jealous of the attention they get as where I'm often begging for attention, but don't get as much as our hobbies are quite different.
Her sexual drift is a little less than mine and because we've had been struggling the past months in our relation, we haven't had sex in 6 months (normally, we had it regular with sometimes a dry spell of a few weeks). Not being able to be intimate with her drives me crazy, but I'll manage as long as I know it comes back eventually. she says it will come back eventually, when our relationship is on its old levels again.
i'm too often making arguments maybe out of nothing and I think I'm having the bigger share in this situation then she does. I have always known she is an introvert and I like that part about her, but this situation with no events, sports, parties etc around me make me really attached to her to a point where she thinks it's annoying.
It went better for quite some time, I gave her more space and spontaneous kisses and a little intimacy came back, but if we get into an heated argument, we are basically set back to 0.
I love her a lot and when all this lockdown stuff is over, I'm sure we will have a lot of fun again and we wouldn't be as trapped in a cage as now too. We both had multiple long lasting relationships and this is the most fun we've ever had, we complete each other, but the lockdown didn't bring out the best of me and her......
Do you guys/girls have any tips on how I can "enjoy myself" more during this time? And also important, how i can respect her "own quality time" more? And do more people struggle being in lockdown? Thanks guys!
tl;dr: from a great relationship pre-lockdown, we are annoying each other during lockdown. long relationship, don't wanna give up on it and im sure it will be 100x better after lockdown. How do I not ruin our relation during this lockdown?
Submitted February 17, 2021 at 12:21PM by ComprehensiveDot2884 https://ift.tt/2Zunm6e
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