My bf and I have been in a relationship for 2 years. This is my third relationship and it's my boyfriend's first relationship. We treat each other with respect and honesty. We rarely argue but when we do, we are both calm and are always able to resolve problems together. I've never loved so much / felt so loved before!
I know that relationships at my age usually don't last a life time, and this one most likely won't be an exception. We are still "young" so we don't live together yet, we are also both still studying and working towards our respective dream jobs. I can see us breaking up in the future for a couple reasons: differing values (about work, marriage, and children), financial incompatibility, or maybe something else. Those aren't problems for us now but I think they will be in the future. I love him so much and it really hurts to think that there's a huge chance we won't be together in the future. On the other hand, my boyfriend has mentioned how he can't imagine us breaking up and how I'm the one. I'm his first girlfriend so I guess he's more optimistic about everything. I always feel so shitty because it feels like I don't believe in our relationship :(
Whenever we bring up the future, we always automatically include each other, but those sad thoughts would be in the back of my mind. I've cried once or twice about it. Is it wrong to think like this? I feel like it talking to him about it would only make things worse.
tl;dr: I'm in a healthy and loving relationship, but don't know how to deal with thoughts of how we will probably break up one day.
Submitted October 22, 2020 at 06:13AM by pm_me_p_ornn https://ift.tt/3dPddat
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