Basically what the title says.
I understand I'm way young to be in this situation, but hear me out.
My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. He didn't introuduce me to his 2 boys until after we've dated for a year. I genuinely 100% love my boyfriend so much, and i can see a future with him, but his kids are horrendous! He has shared custody with his ex and he isn't on good terms with their mother, so they have different rules at the house (from what it seems the mom lets them play video games all day everyday) one is 5, and the other is 6. They know exactly how to play video games but they don't know their abc's or 123's. I know the oldest can count to 10 but thats it. Theyre VERY spoiled and it seems like they have 0 respect for my boyfriend.
I've been to one holiday with his family and they all berate my boyfriend in front of his kids and tell the kids that "daddy is always wrong" which is where i think their behavior stems from too.
They get into the fridge and like to create their own "recipes" theyve poured an entire bottle of ketchup into a bowl and then threw it on the carpet. They cracked eggs MULTIPLE times all over the carpet. They'll drink ANYTHING you leave out on the table or counters. They refuse to listen and when they get put in time out all they do is scream and kick the walls. They throw their trash everywhere and they LOVE to stuff food in the cushions of the couch.
My boyfriend has told them multiple times not to and has tried to discipline them but they end up doing it again and threatening theyll live with their mom forever which causes my boyfriend to become depressed.
My boyfriend recently got a puppy and they constantly try to end up with the puppy alone to abuse it. They loved to throw things at it, and the oldest would always sneakily try kicking the puppy when no one was looking. I once caught them dragging the puppy under the bed and trying to strangle it. That night it happened i was hysterically crying and called the kids a ton of names which i understand wasn't okay but i couldn't help it. I ended up taking the puppy to my house and told my boyfriend he shouldn't be allowed to have puppies around his awful children. They constantly tried to shoot the puppy with their nerf guns too.
My boyfriend would CONSTANTLY put them in time out when they did that and yell at them, but it literally doesnt phase his kids. The oldest loves to spit on people (hes spit multiple times on me and my boyfriend) and he loves to hit people as well.
I'm at my wits end. I dont know if I can stay in this relationship. We end up arguing constantly because of how his children act. I havent even explained how they act in public, its literally SO embarrassing.
I love my boyfriend so much and i can honestly see a future with him and JUST him, am i being dramatic? I've never seen kids act as bad as they do. They seem so vindictive. I can't even imagine leaving my boyfriend, but do i have to?
Tl:dr my boyfriends kids are awful. They animal abuse, hit me, and spit on me. I dont want to leave my boyfriend. What do i do?
Submitted October 22, 2020 at 03:36PM by throwawayformeeeep https://ift.tt/3me6DgB
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