So the guy (M31) I’ve (F27) been dating for months has never been able to finish from sex with me. This includes sex without a condom, anal sex with a condom and blowjobs. He can finish himself off with his own hand only.
I have asked him about it twice where he said it’s just how he is etc, he hasn’t came from sex before...and I don’t want to bring it up again out of adding to the situation and making it worse by making him feel pressured or uncomfortable. (Seeing as I cried when I asked about it/talking about feelings of insecurity etc)
While I’ve gotten over the insecurity angle, pretty much deciding no one can ‘make’ me feel anything, (inadequate or unattractive etc) I can’t help but wonder if it’s the tip or a bigger iceberg... like porn addiction or something else?
Could this be a red flag or should I chill on this?
TLDR- guy I’m dating can only finish with his own hand, is this a red flag or am I being overbearing?
Submitted October 22, 2020 at 01:35PM by Puzzleheaded25 https://ift.tt/35sp8Hx
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