Hi I’m looking for advice and also to vent.. I want to know others thoughts on this to. My nephew that is 12-13, he is tall and solid. He is now taller then me 32f. He has been swearing and name calling to my daughters 12 and 14. He also will push them around or grab there arms hard and push them back to that point it starts to hurt them. I don’t allow my kids to swear or name call. I will get up them if they call him names back.. I do worry about his feelings to. I also don’t let my kids get physical with each other if they argue at home and bicker about things. I want my kids to be kind. My nephew when I pull him up about his behaviour will look me straight in the eye and say that he didn’t do it. Even if I’ve seen him or heard him, he will lie and make out I’m crazy and it never happened. He will never say “ ok sorry “. He will argue with me and make out to everyone else that I’m lying, my daughters are lying. Everyone is against him... I don’t know why he is like that. I’ve always been very loving and kind to him. I always had great conversations and been very caring towards him. Now that his 12 I can’t even ask how was his day? Without him being like “ why? What’s it to you? “ everything seems like he’s pushing a argument. I’ve seen him push his mother around and I’ve got up him because he was hurting her. Also his parents completely dismiss his actions and tell me I’m making a deal over nothing or tell my girls it’s nothing. I don’t want them thinking it’s ok for people to treat them that way. It really makes me angry when his parents allow him to do this like that. Makes it really hard for me. I can’t just say to my girls ok cop the abuse and be nice to him.
TL;DR: Nephew 12m is abusive towards my daughter 12f and 14f. He will lie and manipulate the situation and say it never happened. Even if I see and hear it with my own eyes. His parents allow it and I don’t know what to do because it causes family drama. I love him but he turns it around like he’s the victim and we are lying and he wouldn’t do it. Makes out I’m crazy or my girls.
Submitted July 05, 2020 at 01:12PM by Worried2221 https://ift.tt/3e9zA9j
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