My best friend has a boyfriend since she was 15. The same one.
Yesterday, we were talking about pictures from our younger years (around 18) and she said "I took this one. How cringe?" and it was a pretty artistic style picture of her, but she was topless in it.
I have managed to go 12 years without being attracted to my friend, and never seeing her boobs. Now, I am getting confused emotions.
I know she isn't attracted to me. I am not attracted to her. I never have been. It is weird, because she is seen as the stereotypically 'hot' person. Always has been, although, as I said, never acted upon it as same boyfriend for 13 years.
Was she just dreadfully comfortable with me that she was fine sending her boobs or what? She didn't even mention it. Just acted like it was the 'normal' thing to do. Note: I do not mind. It wasn't exactly unsolicited. I know she had these images from when she was younger. I knew she would probably show them to me if I ever asked to see them, and I knew they would come up in this conversation.
How do I deal with it? Why did she send it?
It is 'weird' for me, as this is the ONLY female friend I have that I have never slept with or seen naked. It kinda ruins that now. It is also weird I am the only guy other than her boyfriend to ever see them.
She doesn't see it as a sexual thing, by the way. It was an artistic shot, so she is not trying to lure me in.
TL;DR: why did my best friend send me boob pictures?
Submitted July 25, 2020 at 08:05AM by Equivalent_Worth7392 https://ift.tt/30QIaoN
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