He started working from home full time since covid and I'm only working part time during the weekends. Whenever I'm at home I cook breakfast at the same time every day for us, 7:30a. He wakes up at 6:20a and I sleep until it's time to cook. Yesterday he texted me that lately his breakfast hasn't been sitting well, so he just wanted to do protein shakes.
Today I slept in and he asked me about breakfast, and eventually he said I guess I'll have to do a protein shake. I was half asleep so I asked him if he wanted me to make it, and then he said if that's all your making then forget about it and go back to sleep. I went back to sleep, and then it was time for his first break so he was laying next to me and I tried touching him and he pulled away like don't touch me. I asked, why did you ask me for a protein shake and then tell me that you didn't want it and to go back to bed? He said that wasn't what he meant that I should have made breakfast, and that he was fucking sick of my laziness and that I might as well go to bed. I told him about the text, and then I got upset because of his tone and asked him what his problem was. He then told me to do whatever the fuck I wanted. I got upset and told him not to talk to me like that.
Whenever he gets upset with me his whole way and tone of talking to me changes and he ignores me indefinitely. It's over little things, and this isn't the first time that me sleeping in has caused problems. If I over sleep he gets mad at me, or if I put the new sodas in the fridge in front of the old ones and he picks one up and it isn't cold. I told him I would take the warm one, and I can get him a cold one. He just looks at me and asks in the most condescending tone, "Why would you put the new ones in front instead of the back? Who does that?" Afterward I can't compromise or make things better.
Before whenever I would sleep during a movie, or not wake up right away or feel tired and sleep for a while this would happen everytime and he wouldn't talk to me at all and be rude towards me. I told him I didn't understand why he would get upset with me, and if you ever needed to sleep I wouldn't hold it against you. If you're tired sleep, if you're hungry eat, etc.
It calmed down after a while and I would sleep in after making breakfast, but if he needed me to do something I would get up and do it. Like take our dog out or get him something while he's working.
I guess, I'm not sure how to react to him when he's just plain rude, and disrespectful. Or if he's in the right to get frustrated like that with me. I know I wouldn't talk to him like that but I know I haven't been productive lately and most of the time I just sleep in.
There's a lot more that I could write, but for shortness sake, am I in the wrong and what should I do?
TLDR: Boyfriend got upset with me for not making our usual breakfast, and hates it that I sleep in.
EDIT: We live with my parents so any bills we pay for the house we split in half, and our individual bills are paid by ourselves. He does pay rent and utilities, we split them in half.
Submitted July 05, 2020 at 10:53AM by EmergencySea4 https://ift.tt/3gp32t6
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