My roommate and I (30M, 30F) drunkenly slept together... he doesn't seem to remember, should I tell him or just lock it up in my memories?

I've lived with my roommate for about a year and a half and we've become good friends. It has never been romantic or even flirtatious in any way between us, especially since we both had boyfriend/girlfriends while living together.

Last month, we were both broken up with our respective partners and had a drink together. Ended up drinking WAY too much and we definitely had sex in his room. I think he was worse off than I was and I ended up waking up around 2 or 3, crawled out of his room and into my own and slept it off. When I woke up, he stepped out of the shower and only said, "I'm going to be throwing up all day so, I just wanted to let you know." And we didn't really talk about anything that happened.

Later that evening I asked him, do you remember what happened last night? And he said, "I blacked out. I haven't drank that much since college and I completely blacked out." For some reason, I didn't really want to tell him we slept together... it was a split second decision and now I feel like the moment's passed and it's weird to bring it up.

Except we are kind of hardcore flirting with each other now. He truly doesn't seem like he remembers what happened. Should I tell him...? Or is it better to just pretend it didn't happen? He has never hinted to me that he remembers or is waiting for me to bring it up.

Tl;Dr - Roommate and I ended up sleeping together after drinking way too much. I left his room when I came to, and he slept through the morning. Later, he said he blacked out and couldn't remember what happened and I didn't tell him. Now we are flirting a lot and it's turning into something but I don't know if it's right to tell him or wrong that I didn't tell him. I kind of lost my chance at telling him when it actually happened. Tell him or no?

Submitted June 24, 2020 at 07:32PM by azura2222 https://ift.tt/2Z60Boy