My bf and I have been together for 1.5 yrs. We've had our ups and downs, but lately our relationship had been the best it has ever been. He said he enjoys spending time with me and misses me when we are apart, but he doesn't feel happy, just content, and he is wondering whether it is because he can find someone more attractive than me and/or with flaws he is more willing to accept or whether it is just something internally that he needs to work on. My main flaws according to him are my health problems, the main one being anxiety, which has affected our relationship negatively in the past, but it is something I have been working on and it has improved. He says I am a good partner, but he is worried that my anxiety will hold me back in the future, so he is not sure if he wants to start a family with me. When he tried to break up with me a few days ago, he broke down and later said he wasn't sure. I convinced him to get help and he has made appointments with several therapists and said he would work on figuring out exactly what is going on in his head.
Does anyone have experience with something like this? Have you been with a partner who you enjoyed being with but you still continued wondering if there is something better out there? I would appreciate any insight or advice as I am pretty confused about what to do in this situation?
TL;DR: My bf is content being with me but is thinking about breaking up to see if there is something better out there.
Submitted June 03, 2020 at 05:34PM by ThrowRA-1114 https://ift.tt/2U3f6rt
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