Hello, this is very long winded. He scrolls this page a lot and he knows this is my username but at this point FUCK IT! So, my boyfriends ex fwb is part of our lives. It makes me uncomfortable. To make a long story short, he fucked a pregnant woman, as a FWB. She caught feelings, he declined the moves. Wanted only sex, cool! Cool! BUUUUT he was in the delivery room with her. The FWB made MY BF PARENTS the godparents. The GODPARENTS. The child is part of his life, he’s basically helped raise her. This family has spent hundreds or thousands for this kid. Has her pictures with Santa and Easter bunny on our fridge in our home. (Kinda think he’s the real dad but he’s assured me 100x the dad is a drug addict, whatever though) so ultimately the FWB is in our lives too. It bothers me, she makes sly remarks about us not needing to have kids bc she’s done all the work. Told my BF mom that she must not need grandkids bc she has plenty already. (she now has 9 with her current BF plus past relationships, not all biologically hers). She says things about my BF that i already know, but acting as if I don’t. Small things like “yeah, he is so lazy until he actually gets into the work” or “yeah he is so weird all he has ever done is eat with plastic silverware” LIKE I KNOW. YOU GUYS WERE A THING, BUT I KNOW! Today bothered me because we are visiting his parents and I will meet his brother for the first time. She is there (met him 100s of times, bc she has been in his life for 6 years give or take). I said “She will always be part of everything we do.” And he said, “well yeah.” And I replied with “next time, watch out for who you fuck.” And he looked at me and said “what?”. I just stayed silent. I know it seems petty but she makes me uncomfortable. I do not like being around her. I just wish she would go tf away but she is stuck in this family FOREVER. How am I meant to cope with this??????
TL;DR: I have to deal with my BFs ex FWB and child, and it makes me uncomfortable how often she is with the family and our lives.
Submitted June 04, 2020 at 02:06PM by Hyungore https://ift.tt/3gURD5x
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