Tl;dr - told husband I don't orgasm during sex and since then he's done nothing to help and seeming has no plans to, but also wants to have more sex.
So me and my husband have been together for 9 years, we recently had a baby and since then I've had a lowered sex drive, not that it's ever really been high but I've been on antidepressants for a long time.
Not long after I had the baby and my hormones all over the place we had a fight where I said I wasn't sure if we should carry on the relationship as the sex isn't good and told him that I hadn't orgasmed during foreplay/sex for a long time. It was incredibly hard to tell him that because I don't want to hurt him or make him worry about sex, I told him so we could make some changes that benefitted both of us
Since then nothing has changed, when we do have sex he literally hops on, thrusts for a few minutes and then done. I asked him if he'd done any research into helping me orgasm and he said no. Neither of us are good at talking about sex but he hasn't even asked what I like or made any suggestions at all. Today we had sex and the same again, but half way through he asking if I was getting anything out of this and I said no, so he just continued exactly what he was doing til he came. Any advice is very welcome.
Submitted June 04, 2020 at 02:58PM by Puddingbutt267 https://ift.tt/3dGAPgM
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