I have been seeing this girl for a couple of weeks and she's amazing. We met at a nightclub and everything started from there
She's funny, intelligent, cute, attractive, the sex is great and she's quirky. The main problem was that it took her a few weeks to tell me her age as she was self conscious about it. I thought maybe she's like 25 at most (She looks 22, she's Asian so I guess that's pretty common?), but then it turns out she's turning 28 next month....
I personally don't know how I feel about this... I feel that she's mentally on my level (which sort of worries me - because I feel immature for my age). I'm currently a student and she's just started working (Did her undergrad in another country and did her masters in my country).
I feel weird because I feel that maybe we are on a different level mentally and that I feel maybe I am going to get into a very old adult relationship when I'm still enjoying my uni life.
Like she's probably gonna want to start a family soon and I'm definitely not doing that.
I don't know if it's all in my head and I'm over thinking this or it really is a big deal, what should I do???
Tldr: big age difference with new gf, dunno how to feel about it.
Edit: I forgot to mention, one of my urks in my stomach and a red flag was that she was so self conscious about it and made it such a big deal that she didn't want me to know her age. I basically gave her the, "I'm gonna have to find out eventually, and if it's a deal breaker for me, is it better to leave now or later?" Type of talk.
Submitted May 26, 2019 at 09:10AM by Looking_4_Stacys_mom http://bit.ly/2HEljnZ
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