My brother (30) cancelled plans on me to hang out with his GF (30) family (they've been dating about 1 year). Told me (27 F) to join, am I right in thinking this is rude?

My brother is about to move to a different city and he's my only family here. We had plans to go to our favorite restaurant tonight as a goodbye dinner, we were going to have a feast and have been talking about it for months being just us two. His girlfriends family is also in town this weekend, he mentioned to them that he was getting dinner with me.

Somehow it turned into his girlfriend and her family were going to go too (I've never met them). I told him I didn't feel comfortable going with them so he basically told me not to come and is going with them instead but I was still welcome to join.

Am I right in thinking that is rude of him? Im pretty offended, I'm def not going I just wanted someone else's opinion on the situation. I'm sad he's moving because he's my best friend, just sucks that our goodbye dinner turned into an event with his girlfriends family and I'm basically forced to meet them or not see him, just doesn't seem fair on my side.

tldr: My brother is moving out of the city we live in and we had a goodbye dinner planned just us 2. He invited his gf and her family who I've never met also. I don't feel comfortable going and offended he kind of cancelled on me for them, do you agree this is rude?

Submitted May 26, 2019 at 08:21AM by EverythingBagelYum http://bit.ly/2W2Cus5