[17f] girlfriend is bisexual (18m] dont know if I should hold the same standards to boundaries with men to women

So my girlfriend is bisexual. She is attracted to both men and women. This has been openly discussed so theres no doubt about it.

Constantly throughout the relationship there has been this double standard. She has always made comments about girls. And anytime she hangs out with her girl friends she is no doubt at a level of comfortable and interaction that if it was men would be considered cheating

Ill give some examples here so its not so ambiguous. Constantly making sexual jokes towards her girlfriends that she has OPENLY admitted and talks about them being extremely attractive. Also being naked with girls, piercing their nipples(not a job just did it for fun), and in general makes sexual comments about her friends.

I at first took a I dont care approach to it. I thought of it like well theyre friends no big deal. But its more of the double standard that is set. For example I asked if she ever watched the Kim Kardashian sextape. She got upset over this and began to pout. Same thing happens when I watch game of thrones. She pouts because there are boobs in the show and gets jealous.

Ive began to get upset how come its okay for her to have this relationships with her friends but this petty shit she gets upset with me. Its difficult for me to decide if this is justified. Should she be held to the same standard that she is held for men. Should those same boundaries be enforced in the boundaries of our relationship or would that be infringing and controlling on her relationships with her friends? Im leaning towards holding the same standards since I believe there is sexual attraction to these girls shes engaging in these behaviors with as she has openly mentioned her attraction for them before. Would someone please help me decide what boundaries here are okay and not okay.

TLDR; Girlfriend is attracted to girls and men alike. Cant decide if I should set the same boundaries in our relationship towards women as men.

Submitted May 25, 2019 at 12:11PM by stickbear45 http://bit.ly/2Wt3ksA