So this happened yesterday. We have been together for 12 years now and we have a 5 year old. I don't know how to react to this, he says that I put a lot of pressure on him. The bottom line for him was that I told him that he shouldn't make promises to our daughter and then don't keep them. He promised yesterday that we were going to be out all day buying the Christmas tree. He was buying stuff for his vacation to Europe and when the time came to purchase the tree, he was too tired. I obviously told him that he was careless for making a promise like that. He was very angry because he says a put a lot of pressure on him and told me that I was the reason why he wants to kill himself. That hurt me deeply... So today we were heading to the movies to see fantastic beasts and he told me we always do what I want for his birthday (he came up with the movie idea).
Just to give you a little background, we have been under a lot of pressure lately, this year has sucked. He had a spinal surgery, I was fired two times, I was diagnosed a tumor (benign) and the bills have taken a toll on us. However I don't think he should say that to me, honestly, I feel that I don't want to say anything because I don't want to put more pressure on him. Sometimes I critize a lot and I want to get better, I just don't know how.
Any advice?
TL;DR: fiancé told me I am the reason why he wants to kill himself because I put a lot of pressure on him
Submitted November 18, 2018 at 04:11PM by Violentfemme89 https://ift.tt/2KebYTA
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