Okay, so I've (21M) been dating this girl (20F) for 1.5 months and we've known each other for 3 months (October), she told me about her history and she was casually dating a guy (august-sep) after her long term ex boyfriend of 2.5 years cheated on her, now fast forwarding she sometimes has episodes of being absolutely sad and low and she thinks that everyone will leave her with time, I reassure her and try to talk to her whenever she is upset, but it sometimes has a negative impact on my mood as well. For example, she told me today that she read a few texts with her bestfriend about the exes and she doesn't want me to screw this up because she was in a bad situation a few months ago. What should I do? Any suggestions on how I should help her as a friend rather than a partner? Ps: even I think about these things which impacted me but I took therapy last year which help, I 100% know that she wont go for therapy(financial constrains) so what should I do here?
TL;DR: Girlfriend’s past trauma is affecting our current relationship, what should I do?
Submitted December 20, 2022 at 07:14PM by ParkGroundbreaking79 https://ift.tt/5MzJNjH
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