Hello pals. I (36f) broke up with my boyfriend (36f) two hours ago, because I can't get over his past. We've been together for almost 4 years and we've been living together for 2 years. At first we were only friends, so he had already told me too much about his relationships. Things that I really didn't want to know. For instance, he once told me that one day after his girlfriend had left home, her 15 year old sister had come to his bed and he had sex with her. Or that he had slept with his girlfriend's mother several times. And a lot of other stuff like that. I've been trying to get over it all, but then my niece came here and stayed with us for a week. When they were alone, I couldn't stop thinking that he might sleep with my 17 year old niece just like he did to his ex's sister. Then I realized that it was a big issue. Today I had a suggestion on Instagram who had recently joined Instagram and my boyfriend was following her, and she was following him as well. Then I noticed her last name was exactly the same as those two sisters he had sex with. So I asked him if she had any relation with them and he answered that she was also their sister. So my mind started picturing him having sex with the third sister as well as those two others...so I couldn't hold it and I explained everything to him and asked him to end things up. He immediately accepted and asked me not to explain any more. Then he told me that he would move back to our country in a month. Now my question is that, did I act too irrational?? Is it normal for me not to trust him because he told me way too much about his past?? BTW, two years ago, he declared that he would never spend his whole life with only one person and he thought all relationships must end one day. That's another reason why I stopped trying...
TLDR: I broke up with my boyfriend because I can't get over his past. Did I make the right decision?
Submitted September 24, 2021 at 02:32AM by Apprehensive-Goal-39 https://ift.tt/39wm5Ay
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