tl;dr,
- Should I be offended by the couple getting married?
- Should I link up with my SO after the wedding?
Context:
My SO was asked to RSVP to an invite that didn't include my name. My SO hinted at having me there by nothing realistic has been provided to justify her invitation only e.g. budget, headcount, or friendship fit. The couple getting married approached me a couple months back for vacation recommendations to a pre-wedding location that's home for me. I delivered a 23 page document with detailed local insights, and how they can independently and safely get around which they would have to pay someone to FACILIATE on that side of the border**.**
She's very hesitant to bring this up with the couple. All the weddings that she has accompanied me did not include her name in the invitation, but I made sure she was there.
Now, my SO said that she's going to go to the wedding destination "no matter what". Code for, if you're not invited, I'm going anyway with the expectation that I meet up with her after the wedding to explore the place.
I feel run over by the couple and my gf for supporting this kind of etiquette. We live in different states right now, and on one of the weeks that she hardly has off, she's chosen to forgo what precious time we have together to go for this wedding and explore whether I can make it or not.
What are your thoughts?
Submitted May 05, 2021 at 11:39AM by nroshania https://ift.tt/3toTIvF
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